Trackbacks

Okay, being a newbie I'm having a problem. Why is it when ever I link to another persons post, it doesn't show up in their trackbacks? What am I doing wrong... Please oh wise and experienced bloggers, help me in my blogging infancy to be a better member of the blogosphere.

UPDATE: I want to thank Harvey for even more wonderful advise. In the comments he told me where to go, so now I get to manually do all these. Thank you again Harvey! You're the greatest blog Dad-pa a guy could have. I promise I wont let the others put you in the virtual nursing home.